My name is Claire Bauer, I’m 20 years old, married and have the most darling 2-month-old baby ever. I grew up in Thailand and can speak, read, and write the Thai language almost fluently. I haven’t traveled to or lived in many different countries as some have, but I can still profess to having a fantastic and beautiful life that I never regret for a moment. It’s been wonderful—every moment of it—just having the knowledge that I’m helping people and making a difference day by day, doing some worthwhile with my life that not only brings happiness to others, but to myself as well.

My childhood is also a memorable one. My memories from growing up in The Family consist of happy, fun and exciting times that I will never forget. My days were filled with scholastic learning in all the academic subjects as well as other curricular activities such as baking, sewing, secretarial skills, gardening, performing, art and drama—made possible because of our home schooling and the superb teachers we had. Not to mention the many shows we did that were always enjoyable for me, performing at homes for the elderly, orphanages, hospitals, schools, hotels and much more. There was never a lonely or dull moment with plenty of friends and siblings to learn and play with and so much to keep us busy.

I feel I’ve had such a rich life, full of rewarding and fulfilling experiences that I wouldn’t have gained any other way and wouldn’t trade for the world. Now, as I’m starting my own family, there’s nothing I would wish for more for my own children and the children I teach than the same lifestyle I grew up with and love so much. I’m living proof that it’s a great place to grow up and live in, and hundreds of others are as well.

Anyone can ask me and I won’t deny that I love this life with all my heart. I’m not here in this Family because my parents are and I have to be, but because I want to be. I’ve made a personal decision to live for Jesus and others, and The Family is the best place to do it.

Quit criticizing us for the lifestyle we’ve chosen of our own accord, and join us if you want to experience the highs that helping others brings. It’s great and you’ll never know it till you try it yourself.

Claire Bauer is a second generatiion member of the Family International.